Has been pondering about something lately.. What could have made a man who had been in a relationship for 4 years suddenly decided that it's enough and walk out of her life? Is it due to peers, who kept telling him how she had changed eversince she starting working suddenly rang a bell or because he recently started hanging out with his long lost female friend whom he claim used to like him long ago?
Seeing the way he treats his long lost friend now and how he treated his ex-girlfriend, he seems like a different person altogether. This is so pathetic, he ought to be ashamed of himself. Last time, when we went out for dinner together, if his girlfriend were to say she's full and asked the rest of us to order our food, he would happily order his and sit down to eat without asking if she wanted anything at all. Now, given the same scenario, he had asked why his friend why she's not hungry, what she had before meeting us and without asking, buy her a dessert instead of watching us eat.
It's so unfair.. His ex-girlfriend is happy with her job. Why did he had to be a spoil sport and hurl insults at her, saying she's too career-minded and make her cry silently? She tried so hard to make things work out between them. I could see her changes when he said he didnt like the way she react to certain things. In the end, the outcome was still the same. They had a quarrel in front of us. She asked if he would leave her for good. He said yes, and walked away. He didnt turn back to see how hurt she was. Instead, he called up his long lost girl friend and they went clubbing to get high. If it's a change of heart, just say so. Don't compare her with your other friend and start picking faults to crush her ego. You just wanted things to seem like she's the one who had ruined the relationship since she started work at a new place, you wanted to be the good guy. You said bad things about your ex in front of your new beau to gain her sympathy. You are horrible.. I've finally seen your true colours.
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